Much like landing a dream job, finding the ideal wo is often a fierce game of tug of war, involving lots of crashing and burning and trial and error. To help increasing your chances of finding the woman of your dreams, we prepared lay out these questions that will help you to think and find the answers to the key points that will help you meet that special one.
Things like luck or even intelligence play no role in success, though many gentlemen still believe into the fallacy wholeheartedly. You certainly don’t have to born with a silver spoon in your mouth, or have a lot of “connections” either, as they always like to say.
1) Are you a confident person?
Think about how Brad Pitt would approach a woman: Like a regular guy who’s comfortable with himself, has something to say, and is interested in her, too.
2) Do you often go on dates?
Trial and error. The best way to find the woman of your dreams is by maximizing your chances. The more dates you get, the more you will increase the probability of meeting the perfect woman.
3) Do you take good care of your health and appearance?
To attract a person, be attractive yourself. Most importantly, you need to understand yourself well, knowing your own identity and values. If you don’t know these things, you will have a hard time defining boundaries in your relationship and you may fail to connect well, be afraid of commitment or not notice when you over-rely on the other person to define you.
4) Do you have a great opening line?
Whether you’re asking a woman out physically or through a screen, you’re going to need to consider the words that you’ll use when you first approach her.
In person, it’s better to err on the side of a simple greeting rather than an elaborate pick-up line, and you won’t usually need to conjure up anything more complex than a simple “hi!” or respectful compliment. Online openers, however, require slightly more thought: on Tinder, for example, an unadorned “hi!” will annoy your recipient and blend into the 45 other near-identical messages in her inbox, so try working in a question about her bio or complimenting one of her featured photos instead.
Sometimes finding a perfect romantic match is based on luck. However, you are more likely to find a partner in life by working on improving your attitude toward yourself, love, dating, and relationships. Resist the temptation to find your soulmate by leaving it to the fates: improve yourself and your dating strategies in order to increase the likelihood of finding your lover.